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Dear Add Vice -
I'm in my mid-twenties, but have yet to go to a gay bar or club. They scare me; I always think everyone will laugh at me as soon as I come in. How does one go to a bar and not end up sitting in a corner?
Gay-zelle Scared Of The Other Animals At The Watering-hole